Since 2014, most of the time I travel by myself. Sometimes your friends just can’t follow your plans, aren’t flexible with your schedule or just want to organize their budget differently, but that shouldn’t stop you from travelling. I bet there are some places you couldn’t go to because you didn’t have the right company. I’m not saying travelling solo is super easy, but it’s worth it, because now I have friends and acquaintances in almost every city I’ve visited.
Here are some of my tips on how to find company during your stay!
Hostels are literally made for friendships and meetups. They are often full of backpackers and travelers just like you, so you do have a lot in common with them. The best part about hostels is that they often organize events like parties, game nights, international dinners, which could be a good opportunity to find some buddies!
TAKE WALKING TOURS
Whether they’re organized by a hostel or some other organization, walking tours are great way to hear new stories, and they are pretty informative. Hostels are often providing them for free, so don’t miss that chance! By doing that, you may hear important information about the city and its famous monuments, as well as chat with other travelers
Meetup is a social network which is all about organizing group meetings. For example, If you’re in Madrid, you can search for different events and choose the one you like, depending on what you are interested in. There are a lot of choices: Photography, Food and Drink, Music, Hobbies and Crafts, etc. Vine tasting in Lisbon? Sounds great, there is a set location and time, just join the group and show up. My favorite type of events are international conversations, where you practice your language skills by talking to foreigners.
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BRING SOME ALCOHOL!
Whether you drink it or not, the fact is that sometimes it helps. Here’s my favorite trick:
During summer in any city there is a place where a lot of youngsters just sit, drink and chat. I just buy a bottle of vodka or beer and approach to a group of people that look interesting to me, and ask if they want to share it with me. Yeah, maybe it sounds weird, but from my experience some nice friendships grew out of that. It doesn’t even have to be something serious, you can just have fun and go to the club with them later.
TRAVELING & APPS
Maybe swiping left and right maybe sounds superficial, but if you need company, it can help. It doesn’t have to be a tinder date, it can also be a way of meeting locals. They can always show you the best restaurants or tell you where the cheapest food is.
CONCERTS & SHOWS
Waiting in the line for your favorite artist’s show or just dancing on the general admission floor makes it so easy to start a conversation. You already have something in common, right? This month I went to Gaga’s show in Barcelona, where I met Diego and Alberto and we’ve spent the whole day together!
Of course you need confidence in order to do all of that, but try to get out of your comfort zone, push your own limits, I was pretty shy before, and look at me now!
Thanks for reading,